Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Top Ten 'Must Knows' for Divorced Dads! http://dld.bz/6SZS Wonderful Article every Dad should read! Fathersrightsdallas.com http://amplify.com/u/fgvx

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Huffington Post: Michael Douglas' Ex loses Court Case on 'Wall Street' Earnings! Texas Spousal Support: Post Divorce Maintenance? http://dld.bz/eT7s http://amplify.com/u/fcyv

Monday, November 15, 2010

Huffington Post: Shocking Statements From Alleged Foreclosure 'Robo-Signers'! Improper Foreclosure: Know Your Rights! http://dld.bz/55gE http://amplify.com/u/fa44
Huffington Post: Joe Simpson Reacts To Jessica's Engagement, Prenup Stance! What About Prenuptial Agreements? http://dld.bz/67Qc http://amplify.com/u/fa0s

Thursday, November 11, 2010

BEWARE: Social Networking Sites and the Law

Social Networking Sites originated in the mid-1990’s, but only recently began to expand across the web. Two of the largest social networking sites are MySpace (with over 118 million members) and Facebook (with over 120 million members).

The concept of social networking is easy enough. You begin by filling out a profile, then you look for people you know. When you find someone, you click to add him or her as a friend. Once this is done, you can see who your friends know, who your friends’ friends know, and so on. Social networking is a wonderful avenue for connecting with persons across the globe, but must be done with caution. Keep in mind, pictures, comments, and other information placed on your site may be accessed in any number of ways and may upon proper predicate be used against you in litigation.

Family law practitioners can uncover a wealth of information using social networking sites. Many firms are now making it routine to perform MySpace, Facebook and Match.com searches to see if they can obtain useful information on the opposing party, witnesses, or experts. Such diligence has paid off in some cases. In one case in particular, pictures were discovered of a wife’s sexually explicit boasts on her boyfriend’s MySpace page. The evidence obtained assisted lawyers in securing child custody for the husband. In another case, an attorney was able to undermine an opposing spouse’s credibility when she confronted him with his MySpace page describing him as “single and looking.” While yet another case was won because a husband presented himself as “divorced” and gave a long description of the type of woman he wanted to meet. Information obtained from these sites can be very useful when counsel is trying to provide proof of a spouse’s infidelity. Therefore, is important to carefully and periodically monitor what you place on your social networking site.

Social network evidence may in most cases also be used in child custody cases. Pictures of a parent in various compromising situations while a child or children are in the parent’s custody can present a major problem in a custody lawsuit. Partying, drinking, and negative statements about children used on social networking sites can be offered as evidence in Court. Parents should use caution when placing pictures and other information on their social networking site.

Keep in mind that your employer can access your social networking site. In one case, a partner in one of Dallas’s larger law firms used MySpace and Facebook to uncover details of a client’s former employee and her plans to circumvent a non-compete agreement.

Social networking has also been used in sexual harassment cases. In Houston, Texas, a plaintiff was portrayed as a modest, innocent “wannabe nun.” The opposing counsel found a MySpace page that painted a very different picture of a plaintiff, with numerous photos of her in scanty or provocative attire and engaged in suggestive horseplay at bars and with friends.

Evidence obtained from social networking sites has been used in personal injury and in criminal cases. Attorneys are running cyber checks on jury pools. Many firms are running cyber searches on new clients, witnesses, opposing parties and experts.

In the ever growing and expanding world of cyberspace, it is becoming increasingly important that you inform your counsel of any and all internet usage, sites and blogs which you have joined or participated in so that they may represent you and be properly prepared.







Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Huffington Post: Floyd Mayweather Jr Ordered: Stay Away From Sons! Parent Alienation: False Domestic Violence Allegation http://dld.bz/gtP6 http://amplify.com/u/eysg

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

In Sickness and in Health: When is the Right Time to Prepare a Will


Despite the recent drama over Michael Jackson’s death, he did many things right when it comes to end-of-life estate planning. The most critical thing Jackson did was to name a business associate as executor to carry out his wishes and designate a guardian for his minor children. He also set up a family trust that should keep the division of his estate out of the public eye.






As opposed to Jackson, Steve McNair, former NFL quarterback, died intestate (without a will). According to reports not personally verified by the writer, McNair had a wife, two children from a former marriage, and two children from a previous relationship. Now, instead of being able to decide for himself how his property should be distributed, the distribution of his assets will be determined by a formula set forth under state law.

Too often people do not get around to making a will. The problem is there is no deadline to make sure it is done before your death, and people do not like to think about dying. It is important to remember that if you die without a will state law dictates what happens to your property and assets and a court of law may determine who has custody of your children.

While mortality is a difficult topic to discuss or think about, leaving your family with large financial decisions isn’t pleasant either. Start by assessing your overall financial picture – your net worth. You need to identify not only your financial investment assets but also the value of your real and personal property.

Craft a will. With the assistance of an attorney, you can outline how you wish your estate – your assets and liabilities – to pass through after your death. Your assets along with your debt will need to be handled by your family. Identify anything that may need to be taken care of in case you are incapacitated. Check on taxes that may need to be paid by your estate. Remember to keep your will updated if you move, remarry, divorce, or experience any significant change in your life.

In some cases you may wish to discuss your desires with trusted family members. By letting others know what your plans are, you can prevent misunderstandings after your death. In some cases complete privacy is indicated. Choose an executor. Whether it is a family member or friend, the executor needs to be someone that can be trusted to handle the decisions and paperwork surrounding your death and the probate of your estate. Choose a successor. Be careful when choosing a spouse whose health may be failing along with your own.

Protect your assets with a trust. Setting up trusts can allow you to provide for your family and beneficiaries after you are gone and in some cases bypass probate and the associated expenses altogether. Plus, in the appropriate case and jurisdiction a trust may aid in lessening the potential taxes on your estate. Talk over your planning and estate needs with a financial advisor. You can provide an income to a surviving spouse and children, safeguard your assets until your children reach a set age or establish a trust for a charitable organization. The benefits of a trust are: federal unified tax credit to leave assets tax-free; providing income to one beneficiary for his or her lifetime, and the balance to others; professional investment assistance and management; and postponing estate taxes with property transfers. The various types of trusts you may want to consider and/or discuss with your attorney are: revocable living trust; testamentary trust; living trust; and irrevocable and charitable trusts.

Keep your children in mind. Make sure that you name a guardian who will care for them into adulthood. Establish how you want your children to inherit your estate, whether it is through investments or trusts. Choosing the guardian of your children is very important. Be sure that whomever you name is aware of and willing to take on the responsibility. You may want to also take into consideration their age and health.

Periodically review your plan (especially in the case of divorce or death of a spouse or beneficiary). Your estate will change over time. Do not assume that what you set up five years ago will be what is best for your present estate. Money grows, investments change, you may downsize your housing needs – reassess your plan and make the changes in writing.